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Choosing Peace Over Anger

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ϒ Choosing Peace Over Anger ϒ

Making the choice of peace is a simple choice, which lies in the hands of each one of us, at every moment right through the day, every day. A lot of people would choose a world, the world out there, made of peace but spend most of their time remaining peaceless in their own inner world, and then in their next door world, i.e. in their personal interactions. A lot of us would prefer a life of peace and we try to shape up such a life, only to be influenced by the old belief about how it’s absolutely fine to get angry once in a while, without which it’s difficult to get things done. We also get influenced by those people around us who continue to get angry for the shallowest of reasons. These people could be either at home, at the workplace, in the friend circle, the world at large or people who do not matter too much to us but whom we encounter every day – at the vegetable market, on the highway, or even in the movies for that matter! Unaware of the root causes of their anger, all these people around us will find a thousand ways to justify it, and will keep continuing with the habit in their lives. Their emotional un-clarity is so deep and addiction to the emotion of anger is so powerful that they will probably laugh at the idea that anger is a negative emotion and is form of weakness or suffering. They will, on the other hand, say that peace is timidity and a form of weakness or suffering. So, if you do choose peace over anger in your life then you are also choosing to be in a state of power and becoming free from suffering as a result. However, after having made that choice, to experience it in every moment of your life, it is necessary to rediscover where your peace is located inside you, it’s true nature or essence, how to access it through meditation and finally how to use it or apply it in your daily life.

∇ Message ∇

Positive thoughts bring positive results.

Expression: Every thought, when left unchecked, comes into action. Just as a good seed in a good land brings quick and quality fruit, so also when we pay attention to our thoughts, they become a ground for the fortune that we want to create with our actions. Continuous positive thoughts create a ground for positive actions and so positive results.

Experience: Today I will pay attention to my thoughts. I will not think anything that will harm, but only those thoughts that construct. Today I will create a positive thought like “I am happy” or “I have everything that I want” or “God is my companion” and sustain this thought throughout the day, remembering it at least 10 times a day.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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“सफलता का सबसे बड़ा सूत्र”(KMSRAJ51)

“स्वयं से वार्तालाप(बातचीत) करके जीवन में आश्चर्यजनक परिवर्तन लाया जा सकता है। ऐसा करके आप अपने भीतर छिपी बुराईयाें(Weakness) काे पहचानते है, और स्वयं काे अच्छा बनने के लिए प्रोत्सािहत करते हैं।”

In English

Amazing changes the conversation yourself can be brought tolife by. By doing this you Recognize hidden within the buraiyaensolar radiation, and encourage good solar radiation to becomethemselves.

~KMSRAJ51 (“तू ना हो निराश कभी मन से” किताब से)

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Practical Positive Response Training To The Mind

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Practical Positive Response Training To The Mind

Meditation is a process in which I train the mind to consciously create those right type of thoughts that I wish to have, inside my mind, regularly in my daily routine. On the field of action, I am faced with various different types of negative and uncomfortable situations, which have the first and most immediate effect on my thoughts, before showing on my face in my expressions or in my words or actions. I do realize inside, that the thoughts (and as a result my physical response) created at these times are not the right ones. I want to inculcate a habit, whereby my thought patterns are only which I like or are the right, positive and powerful ones no matter what happens.

So where do I start? Meditation is the start. Meditation is the time, when I consciously create positive thoughts. What benefit do I achieve from that? In these few moments, I am changing the deep and very old habit (not limited only to this birth) of creating the wrong type of thoughts, whenever I am faced with a situation which I do not like. How do I do this? I do this through the intellect. The intellect takes hold of the reins of the mind and chooses the direction in which it will travel. Why is it able to do this? Because, during meditation, I bring myself back to the knowledge or belief that I am a soul and my intellect accepts and absorbs this awareness. This belief then becomes the key to taking charge of what is going on in my mind.

If I believe that I am just the physical body and that my thoughts are simply results of chemical and electrical processes in the brain, and not something I can consciously control, I let go of the key of taking charge of what is going on inside my mind. In meditation, my intellect recognizes and realizes that my thoughts are my own creation, of me the soul and not the body and that I, the soul, using the intellect, which is also a part of the soul, can make choices about them.

When I realize that my natural state is to be the master of my mind and not to be dictated by it or dictated by the brain, I start taking charge of what is going on inside. When I practice being a master of my mind repeatedly by practicing meditation regularly, the new habit of creating only positive thoughts settles inside me and my habit of responding negatively with a negative state of mind to negative situations, begins to change over a period of time. I start responding positively even to negative situations. So, meditation is a major transformation process of the habit of thinking negatively, which then has positive results on my personality and behavior.

Tomorrow we shall further clarify the process which has been explained in today’s and yesterday’s message, with an example.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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हिंदी मुरली (23-Sep-2014)

मुरली सार:- “मीठे बच्चे – यह वन्डरफुल सतसंग है जहाँ तुम्हें जीते जी मरना सिखलाया जाता है, जीते जी मरने वाले ही हंस बनते हैं”

प्रश्न:- तुम बच्चों को अभी कौन-सी एक फिकरात है?
उत्तर:- हमें विनाश के पहले सम्पन्न बनना है। जो बच्चे ज्ञान और योग में मजबूत होते जाते हैं, उन्हें मनुष्य को देवता बनाने की हॉबी (आदत) होती जाती है। वह सर्विस के बिना रह नहीं सकते हैं। जिन्न की तरह भागते रहेंगे। सर्विस के साथ-साथ स्वयं को भी सम्पन्न बनाने की चिंता होगी।

धारणा के लिए मुख्य सार:-
1) लास्ट सो फर्स्ट जाने के लिए महावीर बन पुरूषार्थ करना है। माया के तूफानों में हिलना नहीं है। बाप समान रहमदिल बन मनुष्यों के बुद्धि का ताला खोलने की सेवा करनी है।
2) ज्ञान सागर में रोज़ ज्ञान स्नान कर परीज़ादा बनना है। एक दिन भी पढ़ाई मिस नहीं करनी है। भगवान के हम स्टूडेन्ट हैं-इस नशे में रहना है।

वरदान:- निश्चय और नशे के आधार से हर परिस्थिति पर विजय प्राप्त करने वाले सिद्धि स्वरूप भव
योग द्वारा अब ऐसी सिद्धि प्राप्त करो जो अप्राप्ति भी प्राप्ति का अनुभव कराये। निश्चय और नशा हर परिस्थिति में विजयी बना देता है। आगे चलकर ऐसे पेपर भी आयेंगे जो सूखी रोटी भी खानी पड़ेगी। लेकिन निश्चय, नशा और योग के सिद्धि की शक्ति सूखी रोटी को भी नर्म बना देगी। परेशान नहीं करेगी। आप सिद्धि स्वरूप की शान में रहो तो कोई भी परेशान नहीं कर सकता। कोई भी साधन हैं तो आराम से यूज करो लेकिन समय पर धोखा न दें – यह चेक करो।

स्लोगन:- निमित्त बन यथार्थ पार्ट बजाओ तो सर्व के सहयोग की मदद मिलती रहेगी।

English Murli (23-Sep-2014)

Essence: Sweet children, this is a wonderful spiritual gathering (satsung) where you are taught to die alive. Only those who die alive become swans.

Question: What one concern do you children have now?
Answer: That you have to become complete before destruction takes place. The children who become strong in knowledge and yoga develop the hobby of changing human beings into deities. They cannot stay without doing service. They continue to run around like genies. Together with doing service, they also have the concern to make themselves complete.

Essence for dharna:
1. In order to become first from being last make effort like a mahavir. Do not fluctuate in the storms of Maya. Become merciful like the Father and do the service of opening the locks on the intellects of human beings.
2. Bathe daily in the ocean of knowledge and become angels. Do not miss this study for a single day. Maintain the intoxication that you are God’s students.

Blessing: May you be an embodiment of success who gains victory over every adverse situation on the basis of faith and intoxication.
Through yoga, now attain such success that any lack of attainment also gives you the experience of attainment. Faith and intoxication make you victorious over every situation. As you progress further, you will have such test papers that you might have to eat dry chappatis, but faith, intoxication and the power of success in yoga will make even dry chappatis soft; you will not be distressed. Maintain the honour of being an embodiment of success and no one will be able to distress you. If you have any facilities, then use them comfortably, but check that you are not deceived at that time.

Slogan: Be an instrument and play your part accurately and you will continue to receive co-operation from everyone.

आध्यात्मिक सेवा में ब्रह्मकुमारी,

In Spiritual Service Brahmakumari,

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हिंदी मुरली (21-Sep-2014)

प्रात: मुरली ओम् शान्ति ’अव्यक्त-बापदादा“ रिवाइज: 19-12-78 मधुबन

रीयल्टी ही सबसे बड़ी रॉयल्टी है

वरदान:- मनमनाभव के मन्त्र द्वारा मन के बन्धन से छूटने वाले निर्बन्धन, ट्रस्टी भव
कोई भी बंधन ापिंजड़ा है। ापिंजड़े की मैना अब निर्बन्धन उड़ता पंछी बन गयी। अगर कोई तन का बंधन भी है तो भी मन उड़ता पंछी है क्योंकि मनमनाभव होने से मन के बन्धन छूट जाते हैं। प्रवृत्ति को सम्भालने का भी बन्धन नहीं। ट्रस्टी होकर सम्भालने वाले सदा निर्बन्धन रहते हैं। गृहस्थी माना बोझ, बोझ वाला कभी उड़ नहीं सकता। लेकिन ट्रस्टी हैं तो निर्बन्धन हैं और उड़ती कला से सेकण्ड में स्वीट होम पहुंच सकते हैं।

स्लोगन:- उदासी को अपनी दासी बना दो, उसे चेहरे पर आने न दो।

English Murli (21-Sep-2014)

Reality is the Greatest Royalty.

Question: Who can maintain permanent intoxication? What are the signs of those who have permanent intoxication?
Answer: Only those who are seated on BapDada’s heart-throne can have permanent intoxication. The place for the elevated confluence-aged souls is the Father’s heart-throne. You cannot find such a throne throughout the whole cycle. You will continue to receive the throne of the kingdom of the world or the kingdom of a state, but you will not find such a throne again. This is such an unlimited throne that, whether you are walking around, eating or sleeping, you are on the throne. Those children who are seated on the throne in this way have forgotten the old bodies and the bodily world and, while seeing, do not see anything.

Question: On the basis of which dharna can you remain constantly merged in the ocean of happiness?
Answer: Be introverted. Those who are introverted are always happy. Residents of Indore means those who are introverted and are constantly happy. The Father is the Ocean of Happiness and so the children would also remain merged in love in the ocean of happiness. The children of the Bestower of Happiness would also be bestowers of happiness, the ones who distribute the treasures of happiness to all souls. Whoever comes and with whatever loving feeling they come, they should have them fulfilled through you. So, become images that are complete and perfect. Just as nothing is lacking in the Father’s treasure-store, similarly, children would also be fully satisfied souls, the same as the Father.

Achcha. Om shanti.

Blessing: May you be a trustee who is free from bondage and with the mantra of manmanabhav, become free from any bondage of the mind.
Any type of bondage is a cage. A caged bird has now become a bondage free, flying bird. Even if there is any bondage of the body, the mind is a flying bird because, by your being manmanabhav, any bondages of the mind are broken. There is no bondage even in looking after matter. Those who look after everything as trustees are free from bondage. A householder means to have a burden and those who have a burden can never fly. If you are a trustee, you are free from bondage and you can reach your sweet home with your flying stage in a second.

Slogan: Make unhappiness your servant and do not let it show on your face.

आध्यात्मिक सेवा में ब्रह्मकुमारी,

In Spiritual Service Brahmakumari,

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जीवन में सफलता आपकाे देर से ही सही लेकिन सफलता आपकाे जरुर मिलेगी॥

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हिंदी मुरली (19-Sep-2014)

मुरली सार:- “मीठे बच्चे – तुम सर्व आत्माओं को कर्मबन्धन से सैलवेज़ करने वाले सैलवेशन आर्मी हो, तुम्हें कर्मबन्धन में नहीं फँसना है”

प्रश्न:- कौन-सी प्रैक्टिस करते रहो तो आत्मा बहुत-बहुत शक्तिशाली बन जायेगी?
उत्तर:- जब भी समय मिले तो शरीर से डिटैच होने की प्रैक्टिस करो। डिटैच होने से आत्मा में शक्ति वापिस आयेगी, उसमें बल भरेगा। तुम अण्डर-ग्राउण्ड मिलेट्री हो, तुम्हें डायरेक्शन मिलता है – अटेन्शन प्लीज़ अर्थात् एक बाप की याद में रहो, अशरीरी हो जाओ।

धारणा के लिए मुख्य सार:-
1) लाइट हाउस बन सबको शान्तिधाम, सुखधाम का रास्ता बताना है। सबकी नईया को दु:खधाम से निकालने की सेवा करनी है। अपना भी कल्याण करना है।
2) अपने शान्त स्वरूप स्थिति में स्थित हो शरीर से डिटैच होने का अभ्यास करना है, याद में आंखे खोलकर बैठना है, बुद्धि से रचता और रचना का सिमरण करना है।

वरदान:- कोई भी बात कल्याण की भावना से देखने और सुनने वाले परदर्शन मुक्त भव
जितना संगठन बड़ा होता जाता है, बातें भी उतनी बड़ी होंगी। लेकिन अपनी सेफ्टी तब है जब देखते हुए न देखें, सुनते हुए न सुनें। अपने स्वचिंतन में रहें। स्वचिंतन करने वाली आत्मा परदर्शन से मुक्त हो जाती है। अगर किसी कारण से सुनना पड़ता है, अपने आपको जिम्मेवार समझते हो तो पहले अपनी ब्रेक को पावरफुल बनाओ। देखा-सुना, जहाँ तक हो सका कल्याण किया और फुल स्टॉप।

स्लोगन:- अपने सन्तुष्ट, खुशनुम: जीवन से हर कदम में सेवा करने वाले ही सच्चे सेवाधारी हैं।

English Murli (19-Sep-2014)

Essence: Sweet children, you are the Salvation Army who will salvage all souls from their karmic bondages. You must not become trapped in karmic bondages.

Question: What should you continue to practise so that the soul becomes very powerful?
Answer: Whenever you have time, practise becoming detached from the body. By becoming detached, the soul will regain power and become filled with strength. You are the underground military and are given the direction, “Attention please!”, that is, “Stay in remembrance of the one Father and become bodiless.”

Essence for dharna:
1. Become a lighthouse and show everyone the way to the land of peace and the land of happiness. Do the service of removing everyone’s boat from the land of sorrow. Also benefit yourself.
2. Remain stable in your peaceful form and practise becoming detached from your body. Sit in remembrance with your eyes open. Remember the Creator and creation with your intellect.

Blessing: May you be free from looking at others, and have feelings of benevolence when seeing or hearing about any situation.
The bigger the gathering, the bigger the situations will be. However, your safety lies in looking but not seeing and hearing but not listening. Maintain pure and positive thoughts for the self. Souls who maintain pure and positive thoughts for the self remain free from looking at others. If due to any reason you have to listen to anything and you consider yourself to be responsible, then, first of all, make your brake powerful. You saw, you heard and brought as much as benefit possible and put a full stop.

Slogan: Those who do service at every step through their contented and happy lives are true servers.

आध्यात्मिक सेवा में ब्रह्मकुमारी,

In Spiritual Service Brahmakumari,

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In-English…..

Purity is the foundation of true peace & happiness,

It is your most valuable Property in your life,

Preserve it at any cast. !!

In-Hindi…..

पवित्रता सच शांति और खुशी का आधार है.

यह आपके जीवन में सबसे मूल्यवान संपत्ति है.

यह किसी भी कलाकार की रक्षा करता है!!

~KMSRAJ51

आप कुछ भी कर सकते हैं, स्वयं पर विश्वास करना सीखें।

You can also learn to trust themselves.

-कृष्ण मोहन सिंह ५१

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 1

By understanding each one of the thoughts that the mind creates we can keep the beneficial thoughts and discard those which are useless or harmful. Today we explain:

Necessary Thoughts
Necessary thoughts are those relating to your daily routine, such as, * What am I going to have for dinner? * What time am I picking up the children from school? * What is the number of my bank account? * What have I got to do today? They are also thoughts connected with your profession or job. These necessary thoughts relating to your daily life come into your mind according to your responsibilities and needs at a more physical, material and professional level. When these thoughts are repeated over and over again, they become unnecessary or waste thoughts.

– Message –

To make thoughts as pure as the actions is to be truly elevated.

Projection: There is usually attention on the self not to perform any negative acts. There is also considerable attention not to speak any words that are harmful or negative. But very rarely is there that attention on the thoughts. Because of this a lot of negative thoughts tend to remain in the intellect causing trouble for me.

Solution: I need to understand the fact that my thoughts form the basis for my words and actions. The more I pay attention to make my thoughts positive, the more it will make a positive impact on my words and actions too. Constant awareness of a positive thought enables me to maintain my own inner positivity.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 2

Unnecessary (Waste) Thoughts
Unnecessary thoughts are thoughts that are produced at untimely moments that fill us with worry and anxiety when they appear in our minds. They have no constructive use. Unnecessary and useless thoughts are quick and repetitive which lead you nowhere. Often they refer to things from the past: * If this hadn’t happened? * Why did she have to say that to me? Too many thoughts are about things that we cannot change, or worries about the future, like: * What will happen tomorrow? * How will it happen? * What will I do if I find myself on my own? * If I had been there at the time, this disaster would not have happened. * If I had had this information at the time, I would have won the case. * When I get the qualification, I will be more respected by my superiors.

Your ability to concentrate is weakened by these useless thoughts. If you have a lot of these thoughts you use more energy and time to undertake each task. The origins of negativity also reside in them.

From the time that the past has already passed and the future is yet to come, these kinds of thoughts are not useful and they also weaken your inner strength and exhaust you. It is vital that we learn to avoid this pattern of thinking. In this way you will be more focused and your decision making capacity will improve.

– Message –

To be successful I need to have the balance between the head and the heart.

Projection: In my interactions with others, I sometimes only use my head, i.e., my logic. I am very logical and understand the facts very clearly. But if I keep myself limited only to the facts, I tend to forget to use my heart. I then am not available to the other person and fail to understand him.

Solution: In order to be successful in my interactions with others I need to have the right balance between my head and my heart. I need to see beyond what the facts say and try to listen and understand the other person too. When I do this I will not hurt people with my attitude but will be able to maintain harmonious relationships.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 3

Negative Thoughts
Negative thoughts harm you and are not good for you. As well as the impact they may have on others, these thoughts disturb your peace and weaken your inner strength. If these thoughts occur on a regular basis, they can cause health problems, both physical and mental. They can even become destructive.

Negative thoughts are based on the five vices primarily – lust, anger, greed, ego, attachment. They are chiefly caused by selfish and harmful reasons, without taking into account the values and inner qualities of the person.
* If he speaks to me again in that way I’ll beat him up (rage), * I think they should pay me more without having to do any more work to earn it (greed).

Negative thoughts also arise from unsatisfied expectations, in disagreements, in laziness, vengeance, racism, jealousy, criticism, hate and an excess of power.
* My boss never appreciates my work but he always values my colleagues more (jealousy). * An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth or * He who lives by the sword, shall die by the sword (vengeance).

– Message –

The one who fulfills promises with determination is the one who overcome all problems.

Projection: When I see some weakness working within me I usually make a promise to myself with a lot of enthusiasm. But if I face even a little opposition or difficulty in fulfilling this promise, I tend to lose hope and usually give up trying altogether.

Solution: In order to bring about a change in me and fulfill my promise, I need to use the virtue of determination. Every time I find myself becoming careless in it, I need to remind myself strongly of the importance of the promise that I had made. Then I will be able to win over all the obstacles that come my way in bringing my thoughts and words to actions.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 4

Negative Thoughts (cont.)

If your thoughts are based on the five vices or related emotions (as explained yesterday), it is as if you had poisoned your own mind and the atmosphere around you. However much you may be right, it does not matter. By thinking negatively you will always be the loser, since negative thoughts take away the respect you have for yourself and others respecting you. Generally speaking, people who think very negatively about others will often find themselves alone, even though they have many relationships. Other people will try to avoid someone who has angry thoughts since anger is like a fire that destroys and causes damage, and nobody wants to approach this fire.

A negative person who only sees the negative side of things causes disharmony in their immediate environment. These types of thoughts are more prevalent in people today, and are one of the causes of stress, fragmentation, aggressiveness and suffering in our current society.

At a practical level, negative thoughts make you lose energy and weaken you. They are a form of inner pollution that must be cleansed so that your mind becomes a more efficient tool.

– Message –

The one who is free from desire is the one who is able to maintain positivity.

Projection: When I put forth my ideas to others I expect them to listen to me. My idea changes to desire and when it is not accepted I then tend to become irritated. And along with it also comes jealousy or dislike for the others and I find myself caught up in negativity.

Solution: I need to make sure that I share my ideas with others but at the same time I need to keep myself free from any selfish motive. When I put forth my idea in a detached way, I too will be open to learning and I will be able to accept any criticism or rejectance that comes my way. Thus I will be free from negativity.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 5

Positive Thoughts
Positive thoughts are those thoughts which give us and others the experience of our original virtues like peace, love, bliss, happiness, etc. They enable you to accumulate inner strength and equip you to be constructive. Positive thoughts are always beneficial in all circumstances, without trapping you in the external appearance of a situation.

Thinking positively does not mean ignoring the reality of your world and living in a fantasy or longing to be another person. For example, if you were to repeat over and over again, “I am well, am well,” when you were ill, this is not what we mean by positive thinking.

Thinking positively involves looking at problems and recognizing reality, but at the same time being able to find solutions without becoming obsessed or confused. This often requires tolerance, patience and common sense.

A person who thinks positively is aware of the weaknesses of others, but even then will direct their attention towards their positive characteristics.

– Message –

The power of posititivity helps finish all negativity.

Projection: When I am faced with negativity in people or in situations, I too usually tend to have negative thoughts. When my mind is caught up with negativity of any kind-fear, anger or tension, I cannot think anything positive. I then find myself totally caught up in the situation finding no solution.

Solution: The only way to finish negativity is to work with positivity. I need to make a conscious effort to look at some positive aspect in the situation or person with whom I am facing difficulty. When I do this I can relate to them with this positivity which will slowly make the situation better again.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates -Part 6

Positive thoughts make you happy and as a result your expectations of others decrease. This does not mean that they do not matter to you, but that you no longer demand love, respect, recognition, or even calm, from them, and it makes your relationships that much easier. This is the best way to create long-lasting and harmonious relationships. When you have inner happiness, you have the strength to accept other people as they are without wanting them to be different. This acceptance produces more peaceful relationships. With the positive attitude you create, you can offer yourself to other people just the way you are, with your virtues and limitations, without pretence.

Your body also benefits greatly, since when you have a balanced, harmonious mind you are less susceptible to illnesses. A person who has many useless thoughts will often feel very tired because they are spending their energy in creating thousands of unnecessary and inefficient thoughts.

Your mind is strengthened and healed by being nourished with positive thoughts. A healthy mind is the basis of a balanced personality.

– Message –

The right kind of support makes people independent.

Projection: When I provide help and support to others, sometimes I find that they become dependent on me. They continue to expect the same kind of support that they had got from me before, when I am not in a position to give. Then my good gesture becomes a bondage or difficulty for me.

Solution: When I am providing help to someone, I need to check the kind of help that I am providing. True help is to provide assistance in such a way that slowly the person learns to rely on his own resources and becomes independent. Then there will be no expectations from me.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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Exercise On Self Discovery

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Exercise On Self Discovery

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Exercise On Self Discovery – Part 1

Many people today do not have a clear sense of identity. In fact, when you ask people about the image they have of themselves, it is usually negative, and they see their weaknesses (negative sanskaras) and mistakes committed in the past more easily than their qualities (positive sanskaras) and achievements. This negative image of oneself leads us to an identity crisis. A negative image causes feelings of dissatisfaction to accumulate within oneself. Then our lifestyle is affected by the need for recognition and approval, by the need to justify ourselves, of obtaining material achievements and success.

Given below is an exercise to experience your true self:
Sit back and observe yourself. What is the image you have of yourself? How do you see yourself? Who are you really? What is there left when you have removed all the labels? Are you thoughts, feelings, free will, energy, ideas, being, conscience, intellect, life? What do the majority have in common? They are internal, incorporeal and invisible: they are non-physical aspects. The true self is incorporeal and invisible.

Now experience your ideal self: Make a list of which qualities you think your ideal self should have, the self you deeply long to be and experience in your life. The list may include qualities such as: joyful, tolerant, generous, fearless, free, loving, among others.

— Message —

To see specialities in all is to become special.

Projection: Most of the time, I’m caught up in looking at people’s negativity. When I see some negative quality in someone, I immediately make his specialities a background and start focusing on his negative traits. The more I think of these negative qualities, the more they occupy my conscious mind, changing my reactions too.

Solution: It is natural to be coloured or influenced by what I see. If I see specialities, I’ll take on a little of that and if I see weaknesses, I’ll take on a little of that too. So I need to make an attempt to look at only specialities and encourage others too to use their specialities.

Exercise On Self Discovery – Part 2

Think about which qualities you need to possess as a professional or as a homemaker e.g. qualities of a team leader in a corporate organization would be: efficiency, responsibility, focus, precision, determination, etc. Then, leaving aside the professional aspect, explore your basic, innate qualities. Reflect on your inner and spiritual values. Which values make you happy? Look deep into your inner self. Take some time in this and note down three of these essential values in your life. What conclusion have you come to? What are these values?

The more we really understand ourselves, with our defects, weaknesses, virtues and values, the better our relationships will be with others. We will understand when they have little understanding of themselves and others. Knowing oneself in-depth, taking into account everything described above as well as in yesterday’s message, requires time, effort, observation and the practice of silence. In silence one can begin a conversation with oneself. In this way we can gradually discover our inner beauty and strength, and be aware of the basis of our value and dignity as human beings. When we relearn to see ourselves with our original qualities and innate values, it is also easier to recognise these qualities in others.

— Message —

To do a task with love is to be constantly successful.

Projection: When I start with something new, I usually notice that I’m successful for sometime, but I do not experience long lasting success. This is because I did the task on being told or being forced by the situation. External force makes me use my resources with commitment for sometime.

Solution: Love brings constant success because once I’ve experienced the joy of doing the task itself, I’ll never give it up. Because it is done with love, I’ll put in all my resources and do my best. So I’ll experience constant success.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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The Evolution Of Anger

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The Evolution Of Anger

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We become a little irritated when we are stuck in a traffic jam and we getting late to reach somewhere on time, or we are not going to complete a particular task, as per our expectations or if someone whom we very well know decides to ignore us today, for some reason or the other. If this seed of irritation is watered, or in other words it is given the concentrated energy of our attention i.e. we continue with the irritation for some time, it slowly grows or evolves into frustration. Unless we take some constructive inner action to stop the growth of the frustration and we keep energizing it, it will grow or evolve into anger. And if this happens regularly and we are not careful, it will become a habit, a part of our personality, which we will finally come to believe is a natural part of your nature. We will even think we were born with it. That it is ‘in our genes’. Every time we become angry we cause the production of certain chemicals in our body and we also become addicted to those chemicals – then we look for people and situations which will give us an excuse to get angry so that we can have our daily dose of chemicals. We not only become attached to material objects, people, ways of thinking, beliefs etc. – we also become attached to our emotions like the emotion of anger. The regular secretion of these chemicals will finally kill our body. We don’t need to kill our body. We need to accept that anger is never ever productive, know that it is just not necessary to be angry with anyone or about anything, know that it is entirely our own creation and know that we can choose a different response. If we know and accept that, we will experience freedom from it.

— Message —

To be constantly enthusiastic is to experience freedom.

Projection: When everything is going on well I find myself enthusiastic and have the interest to move forward. But when even a little thing goes wrong, I lose all enthusiasm to do anything else. This creates a bondage for me and I find it difficult to move forward.

Solution: I need to remind myself that to be enthusiastic in all situations is to be like a free bird reaching great heights. To lose enthusiasm according to difficult situations is to be like a caged bird.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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कृष्ण मोहन सिंह ५१

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Serving Though The Subtle Body Of Light

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Serving Though The Subtle Body Of Light

Apart from our physical form (body), each one of us also has a form of light – a subtle light body. It is referred to as the aura, and can be seen by some sensitive souls. All of us might not be able to see it, but we can become ‘aware’ of the aura of others’ through the vibrations they emit. The purity of our subtle, light form is dependent on the purity of our thoughts or mental vibrations. Given below are some thoughts for a meditation to help experience your subtle form and serve through it. Think and visualize each thought alongside:

I become detached from my physical surroundings… I consciously create only the purest thoughts… Now I visualize my true form… I am a subtle being of pure spiritual light, a sparkling star situated at the center of the forehead… Gradually, I become aware of my subtle body of pure, white light surrounding my physical form… In my body of light, I, the soul, the sparkling energy, consciously stand up and step away from my physical form, which remains seated… I, the soul, inside my subtle body, observe my physical body in a detached way… Now I slowly fly outside the room I am in… I visualize myself, in the subtle form, suspended in the sky… White rays of spiritual light radiate from me, the soul, and my body of light into the world… like that of an angel… In this pure awareness of myself in my form of light, I realize that the greatest gifts I can share with those around me are the light of love, peace and truth.

Sitting anywhere, this meditation exercise can be done to visualize oneself in a hospital, on the site of a natural calamity, accident, next to a friend or relative in pain etc., basically anywhere where vibrations of positivity, peace and happiness are required – the location of visualizing yourself can be hundreds of miles from where you may physically be. As you practice the art of being aware of your subtle body, you will begin to sense how you can have a positive effect on others simply radiating good wishes, pure thoughts and pure feelings.

— Message —

The method to stay in constant enthusiasm and to keep others enthusiastic is to see specialities in others.

Projection: Many times while I am sincerely working towards my task, I find myself losing my enthusiasm. I also might find people not very happy with me or my work. I do make an attempt to understand their feelings but fail to do so. Such negative responses further reduce my enthusiasm.

Solution: I need to develop the art of looking at specialities in people. The more I am able to see their positive qualities, the more I am able to relate to them with that speciality. This encourages the other person further to use that speciality. This will naturally keep me constantly enthusiastic.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully

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Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 1

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It is commonly stated that perhaps those who are best suited to leadership power are those who never seek it. On the other hand, those who have leadership thrust upon them, and take up the mantle because they must, find to their own surprise that they wear it well. This process starts as early as our school life, when we become monitors and prefects and are granted significant responsibilities. We learn leadership at a young age. The type of leadership skills we inculcate at that age are important.

Importantly, a good leader, starting at an early age, should inspire and not aspire. Personal aspirations that are regardless (irrelevant) to others always convert a humble and successful leader into a failed one. A good leader should influence, not control – controlling i.e. passing orders, policies, rules, goals, targets, reports, visions and changes to force team members to work the way they believe it should be done; failing to listen or only perfunctorily listening (listening with little interest); exhibiting the “Do as I say, not as I do” mentality and providing inadequate support. Negative thoughts, words, actions or inactions expressing emotions like:

* Why aren’t they performing better?

* What’s wrong with that person?

* Why don’t they know their job?

* They should know their job!

lead team members to believe that leaders disrespect them and do not care for them at all. It results in failure of an organization or the task in hand.

— Message —

The one who has attention on the self is the one who constantly experiences progress.

Projection: Whenever I am faced with a situation, it is very easy to think and talk about others and their mistakes. I hardly have any time to look at and understand myself and my mistakes. I then continue to repeat the same mistakes again and again.

Solution: Whatever the kind of situations I am faced with, I need to remind myself that I am the one who is going to benefit by bringing about a change in myself. So with this thought I need to constantly continue to check myself and bring about a positive change in myself.

Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 2

A good leader, before orchestrating (controlling) his team members will learn to orchestrate (control) his inner orchestra of thoughts, feelings, attitudes, emotions, moods and perceptions to create the desired tune or team result. When leaders become dictators or start orchestrating (controlling) their team members first, the fall of the team gets certain. A good leader is characterized by the way he makes his fellow members work as a team with him being a part of it. Misuse of leader power has a negative effect on team members’ perceptions of the leader’s ability and desire to engage in open communication. Because open communication is vital to any project, these perceptions can hurt team performance. These negative effects of leader power can be virtually eliminated simply by clearly communicating the idea that every team member is individually instrumental for any given task at hand.

Traditional leadership generally involves the accumulation and exercise of power by one at the “top of the pyramid”. By comparison, the servant leader shares power and puts the needs of others first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible. Servant leaders spread an energy of trust in the group, which catalyzes higher levels of engagement of team members, greater involvement of their effort and ideas and greater speed in change and creation of the new, which is the objective of every team. As a result, an excellent team culture is developed.

— Message —

To be free from negative thoughts is to be free from punishment.

Projection: Whenever there is a negative situation I tend to react very negatively to it. I tend to have a lot of negative thoughts and experience a lot of difficulty at that time. I then begin to blame the situation and feel that I am facing punishment because of it.

Solution: I need to understand the fact that the biggest punishment I experience is through my own negative thoughts. The more I can free myself from these kind of negative thoughts I can free myself from experiencing any kind of punishment.

Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 3

Servant leaders are sacrificial leaders, ready to make the sacrifice when required. We explain with an example –

Jessica and Ruchika were close childhood and school friends. Jessica was the Head Girl of the school. One day there was a home assignment to be completed by the class. Jessica had forgotten to complete her assignment. She was afraid of the consequences and even more of the humiliation that she was not ready to face being in such a respectable post. She was also afraid of Ruchika’s assignment as being selected as the best one by the class teacher. Jessica’s mind was in a state of turmoil. On one hand was her self identity based on her role of the Head Girl and also the attachment to the same and on the other hand was her friendship and the voice of her conscience. If she chose the former and prevented Ruchika’s homework from being selected as the best, she would be seen in the same light as Ruchika and would save herself embarrassment. If she chose the latter and allowed Ruchika’s homework from being selected as the best, she would lose, but earn respect in the form of blessings and good wishes of her best friend Ruchika. Finally insecurity and the fear of loss of face in front of the class and the class teacher took grip over her. She chose the former, she harmed Ruchika’s homework and prevented Ruchika from submitting it on time and as a result prevented it from being adjudged as the best. She had won. Her ‘id’ – Head Girl had won. But the servant leader inside her had lost. Her relationship had lost. She did not pay heed to the voice of her conscience and her special relationship with Ruchika. As a result she brought about sorrow to her friend. Later on she repented and realized, that day she had not worn the crown of leadership well enough. She had not heard the voice of the servant leader inside her, a leader who could sacrifice the I and keep her friend ahead of her. She realized her mistake and decided to hear the voice henceforth.

Many times, while playing leadership roles, we are also faced with similar situations as Jessica found herself in, whether it’s in school, in the family, in our social circle or at the workplace, when we have to make a choice,when the I has to be sacrificed and the other has to be kept ahead – sometimes we do that easily, sometimes we find it difficult. There is a servant leader inside each one of us, which favours the sacrifice. We need to awaken that servant leader. Spiritual knowledge helps us in doing the same.

— Message —

Patience enables one to easily overcome obstacles.

Projection: Usually, when faced with obstacles there is an urgency to remove it without any proper planning. That means we want to overcome the obstacle without putting in any effort. And when it is not possible, it tends to create impatience and frustration in us.

Solution: It is important to do some internal work to overcome an obstacle. First, it is good to check to what extent there is faith in the self. With faith in ourselves, we need to plan out before we act to remove or overcome the obstacle and we will, then, find ourselves successful.

Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 4

Very often in a group or team, while moving towards a common goal or objective or purpose, the leader of the group or gathering is required to give his opinion to make the objective of the team possible. Servant leaders are extremely active, positive and authoritative in giving their ideas, when they are required to do so, but are able to keep a relationship of detachment with their ideas. They maintain a right balance ofauthority (while giving the idea) and humility (while accepting the result of the idea, the result could be rejection or even acceptance of the idea). Also servant leaders are detached when accepting or receiving or listening to ideas from team members. The more the attachment to one’s own ideas, the more will be the tendency to resist or reject the others’ ideas, which they do not do.

Also, when a leader starts misusing his leadership for his own good and greed, and becomes egoistic, his team members start staying away. Servant leaders, through their humility, become an inspiration for others. Experiencing power and autonomy is healthy, but when a false sense of ownership sets up in leadership and the leader starts taking his role for granted, it is the time when a leader will experience great downfall in his role as a leader.

Altogether, a good leader is one who uses his mind or law to handle himself and his heart or love to handle others which ultimately brings justice to his role. Such a leader who maintains this balance of love and law wears the crown of servant leadership gracefully through various stages of life, enjoying the respect and earning the good wishes of all whom he comes into contact with.

— Message —

To be free from negative thoughts is to be free from punishment.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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अगर जीवन में सफल हाेना हैं, ताे कभी भी काेई भी कार्य करें ताे पुरें मन से करे।

जीवन में सफलता आपकाे देर से ही सही लेकिन सफलता आपकाे जरुर मिलेगी॥

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In-English…..

Purity is the foundation of true peace & happiness,

It is your most valuable Property in your life,

Preserve it at any cast. !!

In-Hindi…..

पवित्रता सच शांति और खुशी का आधार है.

यह आपके जीवन में सबसे मूल्यवान संपत्ति है.

यह किसी भी कलाकार की रक्षा करता है!!

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आप कुछ भी कर सकते हैं, स्वयं पर विश्वास करना सीखें।

You can also learn to trust themselves.

-कृष्ण मोहन सिंह ५१

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 1

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 2

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 3

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 4

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 5

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates -Part 6

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Coming soon book (जल्द ही आ रहा किताब)…..

“तू ना हो निराश कभी मन से”

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Exercise On Self Discovery

Exercise On Self Discovery – Part 1

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Exercise On Self Discovery – Part 2

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पवित्रता सच शांति और खुशी का आधार है.

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Krishna Mohan Singh(KMS)
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